

What would you do for love? Cui bono? Do you think ruining your life chances would be better for your relationship than hiding behind a false narrative, especially if it meant you could live a private life without fear of angry, powerful, employers or demanding, aggressive stalkers? You honour your contract bc bad faith is punished in the industry in which you work, doors would slam in you face forever you can ignore the loud demands of ‘fans’ to come clean, it’s your life, not theirs. I have a theory, (not ready to share further just yet) the possibility of which is well within the borders of reality, it just needs people to suspend any personal moral code and think laterally about what they might do in unthinkable situations (would you drink urine if you were dying of thirst kind of scenario) (would you firmly say ‘shut up’ to the person you love bc they are about to blow all of your joint dreams out of the water?) (would you sport a ring bought by your loved one and let people think it was given by someone else?) (Would you pretend to be with someone else, engaged, married, even if there are other options, bc you know that neither you nor the person you love can cope with those options?). You know from experience how evidence collected can be dismissed as fake, contrived, useless, worthless bc people don’t want to believe it, can’t or won’t, bc it doesn’t go along with their personal narrative.

Today I wrote a message of support to a long term blogger, but when I went to DM I found that I must be blocked there too, so this is what I would have said privately, but heck, why not: I read your post this morning with great interest, it is the first time I’ve seen both the mc and the 2015 ‘wedding’ dealt with calmly and logically, it resonated with my own views and ideas which up to now I have shared completely with only one blogger.
